Tension, Brain Fog, Restlessness: 5 Signs Your Nervous System Might Be Out of Balance

Nancy Williams-Foley • 24 September 2025

It usually starts with little things. You wake up tired, even though you’ve slept. Your jaw aches at the end of the day. You sit down to relax, but your mind won’t stop racing.

None of these symptoms are dramatic on their own - so you brush them off. It’s just life, it’s just stress, it’ll pass.

 

But when they keep showing up, it could be a sign that your nervous system is carrying more than it can handle.

 

At George Street Wellness Clinic, I often meet people who’ve been living with these low-level but persistent signs for months - sometimes years. They’re coping, but just barely. They know something feels “off,” but they don’t know how to explain it.

 

If that sounds familiar, here are five subtle signs your nervous system may be out of balance - and why it matters to start listening.

 

1. You’re Tired, Even When You’ve Slept

You go to bed early, get your eight hours, and still wake up feeling heavy and sluggish. This isn’t just physical tiredness. It’s a sign that your nervous system hasn’t fully switched into “rest and digest” mode overnight. When your body stays in stress mode, sleep may happen - but it’s not restorative.

 

Over time, this leaves you feeling flat, foggy, or like you’re dragging yourself through the day.


2. You Can’t Switch Off

You finally sit down with a cup of tea or get into bed at night, and suddenly your mind goes into overdrive.

 

Your body feels restless. Your thoughts race. You replay conversations or plan tomorrow’s to-do list.

 

This “wired but tired” feeling is one of the clearest signs that your nervous system is out of sync. Instead of being able to relax, your body is bracing - as if it’s still waiting for the next thing to go wrong.


3. Tension Lives in Your Body

For some, stress doesn’t show up as anxious thoughts - it shows up as pain.

 

That knot in your stomach. The clenched jaw you only notice when it starts to hurt. The shoulders that creep higher and higher throughout the day.

 

When your nervous system is stuck in “fight or flight,” muscles stay tight even when there’s no immediate threat. Over time, that tension can turn into headaches, jaw pain, backache, or general heaviness in the body.


4. Your Mood Feels Unpredictable

One day you’re irritable, the next you feel flat or tearful for no clear reason.

 

When the nervous system is under strain, emotional regulation becomes harder. You may swing between emotions quickly, or feel numb and disconnected.

 

This isn’t weakness. It’s your body’s way of saying it’s exhausted from holding everything together.


5. Brain Fog and Forgetfulness

Another subtle sign is feeling mentally scattered. Maybe you lose track of what you were saying mid-sentence, or you forget small things that never used to be an issue.

 

Brain fog is a common result of chronic stress. When your nervous system is overloaded, it directs energy into survival - not focus, memory, or creativity.


Why These Signs Matter

It’s tempting to brush these things off as “normal.” After all, who doesn’t feel tired, stressed, or distracted sometimes?

 

But when these symptoms become part of daily life, they’re worth paying attention to. They’re signals that your nervous system isn’t getting the chance to rest and reset - and if ignored, they can lead to deeper exhaustion, burnout, or health issues.

 

The good news? Your body wants to be in balance. With the right support, it can get there.


How Therapies Can Help

At George Street Wellness Clinic, I use body-based therapies that help calm and regulate the nervous system - not just manage the symptoms.

  • Acupuncture helps bring the body out of “fight or flight” and into “rest and digest.” Many clients notice better sleep, less tension, and a greater sense of calm after treatments.
  • Reflexology offers deep relaxation through the feet, helping the whole system reset. Clients often describe it as “the first proper rest I’ve had in weeks.”
  • EFT (tapping) works with both mind and body to release the patterns that keep you stuck in anxiety or overthinking.
  • Counselling provides space to explore what’s weighing on you emotionally, offering perspective and support when you feel stretched too thin.

These therapies don’t force change. They give your body the signal it needs: you’re safe now, it’s okay to let go.


A Gentle Reminder

If you’ve been ignoring the tiredness, the fog, the tension, or the restless nights, this is your reminder: it’s not “just stress.” It’s your nervous system asking for support.


And with the right care - gentle, body-based, compassionate care - you can feel more balanced, more present, and more yourself again.


If you'd like to find out more about the therapies I offer please click here.


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